我們需要的不是這種不切實際而虛幻的感情，有人形容跟異性交往就好像在海邊撿石頭，大家都會撿喜歡的那一顆。一旦撿到一顆你最喜歡的石頭，便把它帶回家去好好對待它，因為那是你唯一的石頭，而且要記住從此後不要再到海邊去。永遠相信我已經找到最大、最美、最適合我的那一顆。跟異性交往最重要的不是他有多好，而是他對你有多好。一個人如果條件很好，有一百分，可是，這一百分之中他只給你三四十分或一二十分；相反地，另一個人也許只有七八十分可是他卻是全心全意的對待你，那你應該選擇那一個？其實每一個人的條件都是一樣的，不管你有多好，都還有人比你更好。你雖然做不到一個最好的人，可是你卻做得到一個對對方最好的人。每一個男孩子都可以說：“雖然我不是世界上最好的男人，但我是世界上對你最好的男人。”反過來女孩子也是一樣這，是每一個人都做得到的感情。最重要的是在於他對你的好而不是他自己有多好。但是如果有一個人本身已經很好了，對你又是真心真意真心愛你，那麼你真的可以把一生託付給他。現在女性考慮婚姻的唯一條件應該就是你愛不愛他、他愛不愛你，是不是真心真意對你，跟他在一起會不會有壓力，會不會快樂，而非他有什麼人間的真愛是很難得的 。We need this impractical and unrealistic feeling Has been described as with the opposite As if by the sea, you will be asked to collect stones had picked up a cup of tea Once picked up a piece of your favorite stone, they bring it home to Treat it Because that is your only stones And remember, from this never to the seaside Always trust I have found the largest and most beautiful and most fit my me With opposite the most important thing is not his hands But he is a good thing for you A person if the condition is very good, there is 100 points But this one by pressing He only gives you 30 or 40 points Or 10 to 20 points On the contrary, another man may only 70 to 80 points But just because he's a treat you Then you should choose that one In fact Everyone's conditions are the same No matter how good, Is still better than you You can not do it The best person But you do get a ' best of men on the other side Each of the boys can say Although I am not the best man in the world But I was the world's best man for you In turn the same is true for girls This is all of us Feelings and most importantly he on your good Instead of his own hands But if one of them in itself is good And will you be on time Love So how are you really can put straight to him Now consider the only condition Marriage is the one you love don't love him He does not love you Love is not the time for you to be with him Would there be pressure Will be unhappy Rather than he did! Man's true love is hard

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